30 Days To Happiness Podcast

The Illusion of Control: Why Letting Go Might Be the Key to More Joy

Holly Smith Season 3 Episode 104

We love control. We love our plans, our routines, and the feeling that we’ve got everything handled. But here’s the hard truth: control is an illusion.

In this episode of the 30 Days to Happiness Podcast, I unpack why clinging so tightly to outcomes often robs us of joy — and why letting go may be the key to more peace, purpose, and presence in your life.

Together we’ll explore:
✨ What philosophy teaches us about control (and why the Stoics had it right)
✨ How neuroscience proves that “holding on” triggers stress while “letting go” rewires the brain for clarity
✨ The surprising role of faith and theology in learning to surrender
✨ Practical, actionable steps you can use today to release control and find freedom
✨ How high achievers can reframe control to unlock even deeper joy and creativity

This conversation is raw, real, and full of strategies you can apply right away — whether you’re a high performer chasing big goals or simply someone ready to find more peace in the everyday chaos.

👉 If this episode resonates, share it with a friend who needs the reminder: joy isn’t found in control, it’s found in letting go.

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